When The Trust Is Broken

I have always been a firm believer in second chances. Sometimes even a believer in third and fourth chances. After all, we all are human. We all make mistakes. None of us are perfect. Perhaps they didn’t realize the error. Perhaps after the lesson learned they will realize their mistake and reassess and things can…

The Need For R&R

There is an undeniable need to revitalize one’s life and rejuvenate one’s self on a periodic basis. The need often fulfilled by time off and time away. Time off from work and other obligations or responsibilities. Time away from the constant draining demands of our lives and hectic schedules. Time to just savor the moments…

But I Want Something “Cool”

It was a casual Monday evening. I had just finished cooking a very low key dinner for my children and I and decided to retreat to the living room to spend the remainder of my evening catching up on my readings for my consecration class. “Baby, bring mami her purse” I stated to my son.…

The Thrill of The Deadline

After decades of formal and informal education, an associate’s degree, a bachelor’s degree, a master’s degree and advanced training programs I have come to the conclusion that without a doubt I must secretly like the thrill of a deadline, the pressure of an accomplishment, the stress of procrastination. I must, there’s no other way to…

Despised by The Narc.

I am despised. I am met with sarcasm, anger, wrath and a mean spirit. I am told that I am a “headache, drama, that I think I am better than others, that I am dumb” and so much more. I am told these things by someone who I have extreme limited contact with, someone whom…

Convicted to not Date

“It’s time to meet someone, time to move on and move forward with life. Stop making excuses put yourself out there. It’s not like you need to marry the person but the longer you don’t date the longer it will remain and then the chances of you meeting someone to share your life with will…

Blessing in the Suffering

My heart is so at peace. I feel such a profound sense of being. I have found knowledge. I have found true wisdom. Wisdom that is completely contrary to what the world is teaching. Contrary to what the world is selling. For I have wisdom in the One who is above wisdom. I have found…